Shadow Girl

Shadow Girl

A Memoir of Attachment


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2002
192 pages
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$27.95
0877458235
9780877458234
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$10.00
eBook, perpetual ownership: 
$27.95
1587294184
9781587294181
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“The best book I've read in some time. It has suspense, a sharply defined character, a plot. It makes you fall in love with the precocious little girl, then hurt for her as she's growing and discovering the difficulties of being human. On top of that, it delivers the voyeuristic thrill of intimate family secrets, the intellectual satisfaction of psychologically complex characters, and the inspiration of a happy ending.”—Clair James

“Sightline Books is an exciting and welcome promise of all the excellent nonfiction writing just waiting to come into view.”—Vivian Gornick, author, The Situation and the Story: The Art of Personal Narrative

As the good little girl in an unhappy family who hid her darker troubles, Deb Abramson felt like she was living with another girl, a shadowy being who would neither leave nor make herself known. Crushed beneath the burden of her parents' rigid expectations yet driven to satisfy their needs, Abramson becomes bulimic, then severely depressed and suicidal, retreating more and more from the troubling outside world to the seeming haven of home, to a cycle of comfort from and competition with her depressed mother, to the frightening but alluring intimacy of her father's affections. Her struggle to extricate herself from the “impermeable, immutable knot” of her family forms the heart of her dazzling book.

In this psychological portrait of a family bound together by the uneasy permutations of love, Abramson relies not on sensationalist narrative but on a collection of the many small moments that glitter along the bumpy path of her life. Now and then she provides a broader, connecting perspective by stepping out of her story to reflect on the meaning of it all from the standpoint of the insightful, healed person she has managed—against all odds—to become.

Rich in metaphor and intimate detail, this is a lyrical story about moving from isolation toward connection, about seeing childhood not as a crippling refuge but as a point of departure, about discovering that it is possible to “have your shadows as well as your light.”

Table of contents: 

Acknowledgments
Proof: A Preface
Swallow
Family Tree
Secret Body
Escher's Hands
In Place
My Brother's Room
Where My Heart Lies
Emergency
Sanctuary
The Rules of the Game
Ring Fingers
Triangles
Story Time
Shadow Girl
Golden Sparrow
Fade
Ants
Unspoken
Compare/ Contrast
Decorating Tips
No Man's Land
Shreds
Eclipse
Interlude
The Narrowest Path
First Snoe
Splinter
In Which Our Heroine Shares Something
Important about Life
Epilogue

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