The Ladies' Etiquette Handbook

The Ladies' Etiquette Handbook

The Importance of Being Refined in the 1880s
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2001
208 pages, 52 advertisements
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$27.50
0877457689
9780877457688

“It's a remarkable, yet quirky, tribute to our society's past cultural obsessions.”—Des Moines Sunday Register

“Good manners are to society, as good morals are, its cement and its security.”—Short Hints on Social Etiquette

“[This] text offers insights into the complexities of late nineteenth-century middle class values. The Ladies’ Handbook …suggests a relatively unexamined aspect of the genre of etiquette manuals: the ways that codes of etiquette are shaped by religious or other conservative group values.”—Gastronomica—The Journal of Food and Culture

Prior to the late nineteenth century, most Americans viewed dining as a utilitarian duty characterized by common “meat and potato” dishes and complemented by little, if any, polite conversation. With the boom in industrialism and the sudden growth of the middle class in the 1880s, America's interest in social etiquette rose dramatically.

Consisting of two separate publications—The Ladies' Handbook and Household Assistant (1886) and Short Hints on Social Etiquette (1887)—The Ladies' Etiquette Handbook can be read as a testament to the growing division between social classes and, at the same time, as a reflection of the middle class' overwhelming desire to cross social lines through the graces of fine etiquette.

Written by a Methodist women's church group in Manchester, New Hampshire, The Ladies' Handbook and Household Assistant provides advice on subjects such as church etiquette and the proper handling of cutlery as well as recipes for the socially active household. Short Hints on Social Etiquette, published as a promotional piece by a Philadelphia soap manufacturer—including descriptions of lavish meals, advice on proper word pronunciation, and illustrations of tasteful calling cards—strives to bring “aristocratic” values into the “republican” home.

The foreword by Kenneth Cmiel, professor of history at the University of Iowa, provides an overview of the historic and social trends leading up to the publication of both handbooks and traces the creation and ultimate development of modern social etiquette.

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